Is it possible for you to meet him halfway and to find an alternative means of being tied up? It’s hard for me to be sure whether your kink strictly involves handcuffs (as you seem to indicate at the start of your letter) or if it’s more generally about being tied up (which you suggest when you refer to being tied up as “the actual kink”). by starting his explanation with something like, “This may seem strange, but…”)? Self-awareness is a rare commodity, so this is hardly an airtight method of determining veracity, but I’d be way more suspicious about someone who played this like, “Well duh I wore a condom to jerk off,” versus, “I have this quirk, and you may even have a hard time believing this…” Finally, when you confronted him about this, did he acknowledge that wearing a condom during masturbation is unique (i.e. ( This Healthline article about wearing a condom during masturbation lists a number of reasons why someone might want to do so, including do build their “condom confidence” during partnered sex.) Additionally, if he’s a distance shooter/sprayer, it’s conceivable that wearing a condom would make for the easiest cleanup in a do-not-soil situation. If when he used them with you it was without complaint, it’s possible he likes condoms or even practices using them for sex during masturbation.
The first is his attitude toward using condoms during sex. Some people do wear condoms to masturbate, but his explanation’s credibility depends on a few more factors that you didn’t specify. Do men wear condoms to masturbate? Does this explanation sound reasonable? I have no other reason to think that anything is off, and I really believe in respecting one’s partner and being supportive and fair.īut my past experiences make it very difficult for me to figure out if my suspicions are reasonable. Another small group of people say that guys do occasionally do this. Feeling confused, I searched online, and many people say that men never wear condoms to masturbate, so this is a sure sign of cheating.
I have just always heard that men don’t like wearing condoms because it dulls the sensation so much. I really don’t want to accuse him of anything, and I care about him very much. He said yes he was happy, didn’t want to have sex with anyone else, and didn’t want me to, either. Not long before I found the wrapper, I asked him if he still wanted to be exclusive (since we were recently both vaccinated).
Gay men jacking off in a condom tv#
But I know that his TV is in in the living room, so he could have been watching porn in there. I have seen-and participated in-his masturbating on the bed, and he ejaculates onto his sheets and puts them in the wash. I asked him about it, and he said that he had worn it to masturbate because he did not want to get semen on the couch since the couch cushions are hard to clean.